In some traditional Pakistani families, there is a prevailing belief that a woman’s primary role is to take care of the household and children, while the man is expected to be the primary breadwinner. As a result, some parents may discourage their daughters from marrying a man who earns less than them or who is not financially stable. This mindset is rooted in cultural norms and societal expectations that prioritize financial stability and security in a marriage.
Additionally, there may be concerns about how the couple will be perceived by others in the community if the woman is the main provider. This can lead to pressure on the woman to prioritize her husband’s career and financial success over her own.
It is important to note that these attitudes are not universal and that many Pakistani families are becoming more open to the idea of women marrying men who earn less or who have different career paths. However, the issue of financial compatibility in marriage remains a complex and sensitive topic in many communities.
Sadia Imam is popular Pakistani actress, in recent interview Sadia sheds light on why Pakistani families become selfish and they dont let their earning hand daughter to get married. Sadia even said when people speak about their rights so family members answers ” Humne to nahi kaha tha tumhe ker ne ko , tumhe hee acha banne ka shoq tha.”